January 26, 2011

Wordy Wednesday {A Year Later}

January 25, 2010 at 5:00 pm was huge for us. In this state there is a ten day period after an adoption, during which the bio parents can change their minds and regain custody of the child. No questions asked. The way they figure out the days is an odd system, but the big thing is that the tenth day must be on a business day.

It was the longest ten days of our lives. On the tenth day we sat staring at the phone, waiting for the call. 4:45, no call. We just need to wait. 4:47 still no call. More waiting. 4:52, 4:53 no call. 4:55:07, 4:55:28 no call. We were a ridiculous mess. It was 5:01 when we found out that all was good. We called Pie's Bio Mom and she had basically forgotten about the deadline. She had been at the library and had gotten absorbed in whatever she was doing. While we spent ten days (well actually 13 days) on pins and needles, she had gone about her life. She had made the decision and it had been final. There was no need for the waiting period as far as she was concerned. That was so reassuring to me.

This picture was taken about 5:15. There was crying, squeezes, champagne, hoorays, kisses and more crying.
And this picture was taken last night (January 25, 2011) one year later, at about the same time. Oh how things change in a year. This time instead of tears of joy, there's simply joy. This time instead of shock and awe, there is only awe.
Okay, so now I'm crying. What a sap! I am so madly in love with my family. And I am so lucky. So, so lucky.

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I would have been a nervous wreck but it must have been God's plan all along!
2 replies · active 739 weeks ago
Hi!! Where have you been?! I've missed seeing my little Potato!

We were total wrecks, but you're right. She is our little girl. :)
I have been going crazy with tater and his adventures with the er! I did a post about his first stitches and i will have a post tomorrow about his second visit to the er
Oh my. I can't even imagine how those 13 days felt. Thank goodness that Pie stayed right where she belonged! :)
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They felt endless. Every time the phone rang we both jumped out of our skin. It was brutal, but worth every second!
I can't even begin to imagine THIRTEEN days of falling in love with a child and knowing that at ANY point her birth mom could have called and said, "I want her back." My gosh, I get chills just typing that and to think that that actually happens to adoptive parents! :( I'm SOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad that it was Gods plan for you and your husband to have Pie! What a blessing. Great pics! It's fun to put a face with a blog! :)
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Silly us talked so big before her birth...we're not going to name her until after the deadline, think of it as babysitting, not buy anything, etc. Yeah right! We named her in the hospital, and the instant they put her in my arms...no before that...the instant she was born I was done for. :)

Too bad your putting these faces with it :) they're both terrible pictures!
There is NO way I could have done anything but the exact same thing you guys did. How could you not!??!?! SHe's yours and that's ALL that matters!!! :)

You are too funny! You and your husband seem like the nicest, sweetest people from those pics. Seriously! :)
Lucky indeed. Pie was born and you were chosen to be her parents. I'm not sure if that's luck or fate. Either way...she's yours. All yours!
2 replies · active 739 weeks ago
I like to think fate. I was thinking about it last night as we were snuggling before she went to bed and just still can't believe it sometimes. I'm hoping fate has some more lovies lined up for us as well!
Fate all the way! And maybe a little luck :D
Oh my gosh, this totally made me tear up. I can't even imagine how agonizing that wait was!!

But ohhhhhhhhhh so worth is :o)
1 reply · active 739 weeks ago
So worth it! And crazy stressful.
You have a beautiful family and I just wanted to tell you that I love your blog. You seem so genuine and wonderful and I love your pictures they show a real family full of people in love.
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Thank you so much. What a lovely thing to say. That made my day!
You make me cry too!!! I can't believe it's been a year. Pie just keeps getting more and more beautiful and your husband's beard just keeps getting bigger and bigger. :)

I kid. Seriously though you have a lovely family and I'm over the moon for you!
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Oh my Salt...I've missed you!! Yes, his beard has reached epic proportions. He decided he wanted to have some wicked, big beard at some point in his life. And since at the moment he's working for Pie, it seemed like the time. Drives me crazy! I like it cleaner.

Thank you :)
That is beautiful. Beautiful!
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Thank you. I'm really a lucky girl.
What a difficult 13 days! When we were matched with our children, their parent's rights had been terminated, but one parent had begun an appeal process. It was difficult for us to continue to form a relationship with our children, knowing in the back of our minds that the appeal might succeed. Eventually it was dismissed and we were able to adopt.
How beautiful what a wonderful posting. What a fantastic family. thanks for sharing those two pictures. I found you off my photo plog but linking this to my main blog. hope that you will visit. me
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Thank you Grace! I'll be by to visit today.
That is so sweet! You are so lucky and you have a beautiful family!
The three of you just radiate joy! Beautiful family!

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