February 11, 2011

I could never have imagined...

The assignment:
This week's prompt is to write a piece that begins with the line, "I could never have imagined" and ends with the line, "Then the whole world shifted." We're going to stick with the 600-word limit this week.

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I know a lot of you already know Pie's adoption story. I've written about it before. But how could I not choose that subject given the prompt?!


The result:
I could never have imagined that 7 weeks would change my life completely.

On November 24, 2009 my husband went to Chipotle to get a burrito and came out with a baby. Well, not exactly, but he did run into an acquaintance who mentioned his girlfriend was pregnant and asked if we wanted the baby. It was a sarcastic question, driven by the stress of the situation, but when my husband said yes things changed. Startled, the acquaintance asked if he was serious. At that point we had been in the adoption process for about 3 years, so my husband was dead serious. They parted ways with the acquaintance saying he would talk to the girlfriend.

We both sort of laughed it off and thought we'd never hear from them again. We were wrong. Just after midnight we got a text saying that the couple wanted to come talk to us about the baby and possible adoption. We set up a time for the following Sunday, November 29th. And then we had to live through Thanksgiving. We decided not to mention anything to our families for several reasons. The first was that we had no idea how the situation would play out. The second was that my older sister was having a c-section to deliver her first child on November 28th. So we kept this looming, consuming, overwhelming secret quiet.

Sunday arrived, and the couple came over to chat. We spent about 4 hours asking each other questions and discussing the situation. By the end of the visit the couple had decided to place the baby with us and asked that we go ahead and contact a lawyer. We did and the following week we met with her. Papers were drawn up and things were starting to get very real.

We spent the next few weeks telling our families and jumping at every single phone call. The baby had decided she was comfortable and was nearly two weeks past due. On January 12, 2010 we got the call. It was 7 weeks to the day that my husband went for that fateful burrito. We packed and raced out of the house so quickly that there were probably smoke outlines of where we had been standing. We got to the hospital at about 10:30 am and waited. And waited some more. Then there was some waiting.

At about 9:30 pm things were finally far enough along to start pushing. Up until that moment the birthmom hadn't decided what she wanted to do about people in the delivery room. Things were moving very quickly and she decided that I could stay. My husband and her boyfriend went out into the waiting room. 3 sets of 4 pushes and 16 minutes later at 9:46 pm my daughter was born. I have never seen anything so amazing. Letting me be present at the birth was an unbelievable gift.

There were a few tense moments immediately after the birth. My daughter was born in respiratory distress so a specialist had to be brought to the delivery room. After they got her sorted out and breathing again, they wrapped her up and brought her to where I was standing next to the bed. Her birthmom held her first and then when she was ready, she passed the baby to me. I can still feel the weight and warmth of my daughter, my daughter, in that moment. I realized I was now someones mom. Then the whole world shifted.


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Oh I cried.

This is beautiful and what a wonderful way to learn about your daughter!
1 reply · active 737 weeks ago
I can never grow tired of this story. Ever. I get chills and tears each and every time. I'm so happy for you and your family!
1 reply · active 737 weeks ago
Tears, choked up...... wowsers. Not sure if it's the pregnancy hormones or just your story in general. So beautiful and so grateful that you guys were able to give Pie the life she's living now!
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How amazing and awsome!
1 reply · active 737 weeks ago
I have never heard a more amazing adoption story in my life as yours. And I watch a lot of Discovery channel and TLC. It's just amazing how everything worked out!
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what an amazing story. i almost cried (the only reason why i did not is because I am at work!)
1 reply · active 737 weeks ago
I'm sobbing. Full on, spots all over my glasses, sobbing. What a beautiful birth story. For reals. Beautiful Sara!
1 reply · active 737 weeks ago
gave you some blogging love. don't feel like you have to pass it on though. :) http://memoirsofamomma.blogspot.com/2011/02/blogg...
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I'll never get tired of hearing this story. It's a story of magic. Unicorns and all! xoxox
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wow, how amazing!! the end gave me butterflies. there really is nothing better than holding that brand new mom & realizing you're a mom :)
1 reply · active 737 weeks ago
Thank you, it was lovely to cry over a happy story. So beautifully written. :-)
Such a wonderful story and those icing photos are priceless.
1 reply · active 737 weeks ago
I literally have tears in my eyes. This story is so, so...wonderful!

First off...I laughed a little a the line "he went in for a burrito and came out with a baby." Classic.

And then...the waiting, being in the room, waiting to hold your daughter for the first time. You didn't write about it, but I know you must have ached to feel her in your arms and maybe even worried that the birth mother would change her mind.

This was a fantastic story. I'm so glad I read it. Thank you.
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I love this story. It's one that would never get old, no matter how many times you told it. Such a beautiful moment, becoming a mother, no matter if you've physically given birth or not.

I was laughing about the burrito because of course you swaddle newborns just like a burrito. So it totally was fate. And good thing your husband didn't order a taco or something! ;)
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What an amazing story! I love that line: "...to get a burrito and came out with a baby." And the part about being present at the birth had me totally choked up. How unbelievably special.
1 reply · active 737 weeks ago
Make me wonder what else Chipotle has got going on. Makes me a little nervous! As a new member to the group and my first time reading this, all I can really say is wow, how amazing, funny and stressful all in 600 words.
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I never get tired of hearing this story. It's just so amazing!
1 reply · active 737 weeks ago
Such a great story...your baby Pie is absolutely adorable!
Discovered your blog a couple of hours ago...and haven't been able to click away from it, since! Am forced to follow ;D
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Oh my goodness, I have chills! What an incredible story! I am so glad you found each other and were able to be be there for the birth.
our daughter's share the same birth date ( not year though) and both are beautiful adoption stories:)Thanks for shairng yours!

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