March 11, 2011

TRDC - Beauty in Ugliness

Assignment:
This week's assignment is to write a short piece, either fiction or non-fiction, about something ugly - and find the beauty in it.

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I'm going to veer a little off course with this one. Instead of my typical smart ass fiction, I'm going to write a letter to Pie. So here we go...

Result:

My Darling Girl -

I toss and turn at night sometimes thinking about your future. The world, and the people in it, can be really ugly. This world can be a very difficult place for people who are different. And you, my dear, are different.

Part of your difference, is that you are adopted. That means you have a family that is twice the size of most. You have me and Dada and our families, and you also have your bios and their families. We think that makes you one lucky girl. Other people may not.

Another difference, that may be an even bigger issue, is that you are mixed race. Your bio dad is African American and Chinese and your bio mom is Caucasian and Native American. This is another thing that we think makes you fantastic and special. But let's face it...we live in the south...people here can be very closed minded. I'm so afraid that one day other people's ugliness will make you feel badly about yourself.

The most important thing for you to know is that you are amazing. Every difference about you is what makes you so unique. All of those things that other people may not like are things we love about you. They are things that your entire, huge family loves about you.

You should also know that despite its ugliness, the world can be a really beautiful place. There are people who will love you for all of the reasons someone else may not like you. There are places that will take your breath away. There are times you will wish would just stand still.

All of that beauty will allow you to have experiences that will bring joy like you can't imagine. Being your mom is that for me. No matter how much ugliness may be out there, you are all the beauty that I need.

I love you,
Mama


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Sara, what a beautiful letter. It is so true... there is ugliness in this world and yet beyond on that love will still remain... I have always wanted to adopt and that day I will remember this... Thank you.
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What a sweet letter to Pie! Just keep telling her how amazing she is, and one day she will believe it! :)
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This is a great view of the prompt! I know your daughter will cherish this when she is older :)
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I wish the world's people weren't so ugly for our children's sake. It's just not fair. This is beautiful!
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This has me 8 shades of choked up. You are such an amazing mommy. The world scares me, too, for our future child. I only hope I can do as great a job as a mother as you are. <3
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Oh I needed the Kleenex for that...what a wonderful letter to be able to give her, to be able to celebrate the differences that will make her PHENOMENAL and AMAZING. I loved the way you used this prompt to bring us a glimpse of your daughter and the way you want the world to see her (and the way you want HER to see her world)

STUNNING.
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This was so clever and endearing. I loved what you wrote to your daughter and that I've opened the door into your word- I can't wait to learn more! Great job! :)
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What a great way to display the ugly & the beauty!...:)JP
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And we just want to protect our kids from the ugly, don't we?
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Okay..I cried reading this. So beautiful..and so true. You're an amazing Mom!
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As someone who is adopted, I thought this was beautiful. Although, sadly, I cannot claim such amazingly exotic ancestry. What a beauty this child must be!

"That means you have a family that is twice the size of most. You have me and Dada and our families, and you also have your bios and their families. We think that makes you one lucky girl."

My parents raised me with the very same message. It was vital in shaping my feelings about being adopted. To have it openly and postively acknowleged was key.

So glad I stopped by.
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This is gorgeous. And so true - the very things certain people may not like are the very reasons others will love us. And life really is beautiful.
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*Sniff* *Sob* Sara, my lovely friend, fear not for unrequited love. I'm crushing right back at you. So beautiful.
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this was seriously beautiful. you are an amazing writer miss sara.
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Oh wow. I'm sitting her with tears in my eyes. What a beautiful letter and wonderful gift.
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Beautiful. My kids are mixed-race but out here in The OC it's not all that unusual, thankfully. You said it so well when you said it's about the ugliness in other people, not in Pie.
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